Yes, we can! Experiencing the transformation of a pregnant body can feel like chasing a moving target. Along with fluctuating hormone levels, your sexuality may also evolve throughout pregnancy. For some, libido may significantly decrease, while for others, it may soar to new heights. This raises an essential question: what’s safe to use during this time? How can sex toys and other tools fit into this new chapter of life? Addressing these concerns is vital for your comfort and well-being. From selecting appropriate materials to recognizing the importance of communication, let’s explore how to enjoy intimacy safely during this unique period.
Are Sex Toys Safe to Use During Pregnancy?
Absolutely! Generally, sex toys can be safely used during pregnancy, provided there are no complications. The fetus is securely housed in the uterus, well away from the vagina, allowing for plenty of space to explore. For those with vulvas, toys can be used externally (on the clitoris or other sensitive areas) or internally via the vagina or anus. This can continue during pregnancy, but it's essential to avoid stimulating the cervix, which may trigger labor. Here are some situations where caution is warranted with internal sex toys:
- Incompetent Cervix: This condition occurs when the cervix opens, weakens, or shortens too early in pregnancy, increasing the risk of premature labor. It's crucial to avoid stimulation in this area.
- Multiple Pregnancies: For those expecting twins or triplets, it's vital to avoid cervix stimulation to minimize the risk of premature labor.
- Persistent Bleeding in the Second and Third Trimesters: Conditions such as placenta previa may lead to bleeding; consult your healthcare provider before using internal toys if there are concerns about increased bleeding.
- Infections: If you have a vaginal infection, like group B strep, it's important to limit the risk of spreading it. This often means avoiding internal vibrators that could transfer the infection.
Which Sex Toys Are Best for Pregnancy?
- AvoSuction
- AvoPatting
Tips for Using Sex Toys During Pregnancy
It’s not just about what you use, but how you use it! Here are a few tips to enhance your comfort while using toys during pregnancy:
- Positioning: Sitting in a reclined position can often be most comfortable. Use plenty of pillows, such as a pregnancy pillow or Dame’s Pillo. Avoid lying down for extended periods after the first trimester to prevent pressure on the abdominal aorta and ensure proper blood flow.
- Water Play: If your toys are waterproof, consider reclining in the bathtub. The buoyancy of water can help alleviate joint pressure and enhance comfort while you play.
- Safety and Materials: Ensure your sex toys are made of non-porous, body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone, free from harmful chemicals. Avoid any materials that may irritate your skin.
- Hygiene: Maintain good hygiene by cleaning your toys before and after use to minimize infection risks. Use a toy cleaner or mild, unscented soap with warm water for cleaning.
